Kissing gourami
Bought for a behaviour that is not affection: the 'kissing' is two fish pushing mouth-to-mouth in a contest of strength. It also grows to around 30 cm, filter-feeds with fine gill rakers, and eats soft plants.
Quick profile
- Scientific name
- Helostoma temminckii
- Adult size
- 25–30 cm (9.8–11.8 in)
- Lifespan
- 7–20 years
- Temperature
- 22–28 °C (72–82 °F)
- pH
- 6–8
- Hardness
- 5–20 °dGH
- Minimum tank
- 400 L (106 US gal)
- Minimum length
- 150 cm
- Swimming zone
- All levels
- Social
- Loose group
- Diet
- Filter feeder
- Overall confidence
- moderate confidence
What keeping this species involves
Hardy, long-lived and undemanding about water. What it demands is space, and the gap between the size sold and the size reached is one of the widest in the trade.
Slow, turbid, vegetated waters including lakes, ditches and flooded ground.
Identity and names
- Common name
- Kissing gourami
- Scientific name
- Helostoma temminckii
- Family
- Helostomatidae
- Order
- Anabantiformes
- Class
- Actinopterygii
- Also sold as
- kisser, pink kisser, Helostoma temminckii
Adult size and growth
25–30 cm (9.8–11.8 in) — Sold at 4–5 cm. Reaches around 30 cm, at which point almost nothing sold as a tankmate is safe with it.
Typical lifespan in an aquarium: 7–20 years. Almost every animal sold in a shop is a juvenile, so the tank has to suit the size in the first line rather than the size in the bag.
Water and tank requirements
A deep-bodied 30 cm fish that grazes surfaces and swims steadily needs a footprint that lets it turn without touching both ends.
| Requirement | Value | Notes |
|---|---|---|
| Temperature | 22–28 °C (72–82 °F) | Stability matters more than hitting an exact figure. |
| pH | 6–8 | A stable pH outside the ideal band is usually better than an unstable one inside it. |
| General hardness | 5–20 °dGH | Check your supplier's published figure before choosing species. |
| Minimum volume | 400 L (106 US gal) | A floor, not a recommendation. |
| Minimum footprint | 150 cm long | A deep-bodied 30 cm fish that grazes surfaces and swims steadily needs a footprint that lets it turn without touching both ends. |
| Water flow | low | Match the outflow to this rather than to the filter's rating. |
| Lid required | Yes | This species jumps. |
| Structure | Open water with robust decor. Soft plants are eaten, so planting is either tough-leaved or absent. |
Behaviour
- Rasps at surfaces continuously with the protrusible mouth.
- Pushes mouth-to-mouth with others of its kind in prolonged contests of strength.
Telling males from females
No reliable external difference. Sexing is generally by behaviour during spawning.
Feeding
Fine gill rakers let it filter suspended matter, and it rasps biofilm from surfaces. A protein-heavy diet does not suit it.
- Diet type
- Filter feeder
- Staples
- Vegetable-based dry foods, Blanched vegetables, Algae and biofilm
- Supplements
- Frozen daphnia and brine shrimp
Breeding
- Strategy
- Scattered floating eggs, abandoned by both parents
- Difficulty
- challenging
- Parental care
- none
Tankmates and compatibility
Assessments are derived from stored traits by the compatibility engine, with the reasoning shown. A verdict is a statement about probability, not a guarantee — individual temperament can override it.
| Towards | Risk | What it means |
|---|---|---|
| Small fish | moderate | Anything that fits in the mouth is at risk once this species reaches adult size. |
| Adult dwarf shrimp | high | Cover reduces losses but rarely prevents them where the risk is high. |
| Shrimplets | near-certain | Determines whether a shrimp colony can grow rather than merely persist. |
| Snails | low | Applies to snails you wanted as well as snails you did not. |
| Long or trailing fins | occasional | Fin damage is an entry point for secondary infection. |
| Plants | consumes | Tough species such as Anubias and Java fern survive most grazers. |
Assessed pairings
Any pair in the catalogue can be assessed with the compatibility checker.
Welfare considerations
Points where the way this species is commonly sold or kept differs from what it actually needs.
- Sold at 4 cm and reaches around 30. A standard 100 L community tank is a temporary home at best, and rehoming an adult is difficult.
- Eats soft plants and rasps at the sides of slow-moving fish, which damages the slime coat.
- Long-lived; records of well over a decade are not unusual, so this is a long commitment.
Problems to watch for
Most problems in a tank containing this species are general rather than species-specific. Start with the troubleshooting index and work from the observation rather than from a guess at the cause.
What AquariumHQ does not yet hold
Species-level disease susceptibility is modelled in the graph and is not yet populated. Health pages will not be published until each condition has veterinary sourcing, because health content written without evidence is the most harmful thing this product could publish. The gap is recorded in the coverage report.
Where it comes from
- Native range
- Java, Sumatra, Borneo and the Malay Peninsula, widely introduced elsewhere
- Habitat
- Slow, turbid, vegetated waters including lakes, ditches and flooded ground.
What the checklists say
18 distribution statements retrieved from GBIF checklists. Establishment means is reproduced from the source where it states one, and left unstated where it does not — a record of presence is not a record of origin.
| Status | Places | What this means |
|---|---|---|
| Introduced | 17 | A checklist states the species arrived here with human help. That is not a statement that it is established, harmful or illegal. |
| Recorded as present, establishment means not stated | 1 | The source records the species as present and does not say whether it is native or introduced. AquariumHQ does not fill that in. |
No checklist AquariumHQ holds positively calls this species native anywhere, so the native range above rests on AquariumHQ’s own reading of the literature rather than on a cited checklist.
Evidence
Every stored value with the kind of support behind it and where to check it. Evidence type and confidence are separate axes: an editorial position held confidently and a measurement held tentatively are different things.
| Claim | Value | Evidence type | Confidence | Source |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| scientific name | Helostoma temminckii | Observed / measured | high confidence | Catalogue of Life; GBIF — Global Biodiversity Information Facility |
| native range | Java, Sumatra, Borneo and the Malay Peninsula, widely introduced elsewhere | Observed / measured | moderate confidence | GBIF — Global Biodiversity Information Facility |
| adult size | 25–30 cm | Aquarium-literature consensus | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| lifespan | 7–20 years | Aquarium-literature consensus | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| temperature | 22–28 °C | Aquarium-literature consensus | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| ph | 6–8 pH | Aquarium-literature consensus | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| general hardness | 5–20 °dGH | Aquarium-literature consensus | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| minimum tank volume | ≥ 400 L | AquariumHQ editorial position | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
| minimum tank length | ≥ 150 cm | AquariumHQ editorial position | moderate confidence | AquariumHQ husbandry synthesis |
Last reviewed 2026-08-10. Values labelled as an aquarium-literature consensus are AquariumHQ editorial positions rather than measurements — see how evidence is handled.
Why we say this
What each figure on this page rests on, and how far that is from being independently established.
Every figure on this page has a provenance. Open any claim to see what AquariumHQ holds for it, which sources say what, and what a claim of that kind actually needs. Different claims need different evidence: an accepted scientific name is settled by one authority, while a legal restriction needs a current primary instrument. A single source is often the right answer rather than a thin one.
scientific nameAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableBased on a verified authoritative source.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: accepted scientific name and classification — 1 authoritative source in an appropriate context. Checked against gbif on 2026-08-12. One authoritative backbone is what this class requires.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
native rangeAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableBased on a verified authoritative source.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: where the species occurs — 1 authoritative source in an appropriate context. 18 distribution statements held from GBIF checklists — introduced in 17 country. Establishment means is reproduced from the source, never inferred from occurrence.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
adult sizeAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: size a well-kept specimen reaches — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No external source is required for this class. AquariumHQ's position stands on its stated reasoning.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
lifespanAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: what aquariumhq advises for keeping — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No external source is required for this class. AquariumHQ's position stands on its stated reasoning.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
temperatureAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: what aquariumhq advises for keeping — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No external source is required for this class. AquariumHQ's position stands on its stated reasoning.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
phAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: what aquariumhq advises for keeping — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No external source is required for this class. AquariumHQ's position stands on its stated reasoning.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
general hardnessAquariumHQ's own position, externally checkableAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
AquariumHQ's own position on a claim an external source could support.
What this kind of claim needs: what aquariumhq advises for keeping — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No external source is required for this class. AquariumHQ's position stands on its stated reasoning.
What would improve this: Go and read a source. This is reachable and has not been reached.
minimum tank volumeAquariumHQ's judgement — no authority publishes thisAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
No external authority publishes this. The rationale carries the reasoning.
What this kind of claim needs: minimum tank size — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No authority publishes this. AquariumHQ derives it, and the derivation is recorded with its inputs and assumptions.
What would improve this: Keep the rationale current. There is no source to find.
minimum tank lengthAquariumHQ's judgement — no authority publishes thisAquariumHQ's own position, derived from evidenced inputs.
No external authority publishes this. The rationale carries the reasoning.
What this kind of claim needs: minimum tank size — no external source is required, provided AquariumHQ shows its reasoning. No authority publishes this. AquariumHQ derives it, and the derivation is recorded with its inputs and assumptions.
What would improve this: Keep the rationale current. There is no source to find.
Group size and social behaviour
Keeps loosely and establishes rank by mouth-pushing contests. This is a dominance display, not a social bond.